Men and women are different in so many ways, but there’s one thing in particular that almost no one says.
Girls move on and forget. Even if some are dragged back from the past, they have the ability to ignore and not care enough. Doors are always open for them, and they just keep opening as time goes by.
That’s actually great for them. As they also experience so much trauma from life and men. So they need a natural way for them to heal and forget. And when they not, that’s something for them to unlock.
Men, on the other side, we always come back. And this can be said whether in healthy and not so healthy ways.
Of course in the unhealthy ways. Men and women should move on for the better life of everyone.
But when talking about the healthy one, men should never forget. Men are supposed to suffer and carry the pain, otherwise we are just children of a world lacking of real men.
This is a huge problem in the current society. We have forgotten our roles and ignore our nature.
Women are supposed to have fun, and they don’t always need men for that. They need themselves to heal and support and to remember their true power and how they are actually capable of changing the world.
Most of men are not really ready to add up in the equation. Most of the time we are not enough for the women that choose us. So yes, they are with us because simply because there’s nothing better to find.
Unless… of course, we become the men we are supposed to be, and the one women actually need.
A true man. Someone who has seen hell enough to be able to see heaven in her eyes.
No matter how many wounds and how many losses, how much humiliation or how much injustice. Nothing can destroy the men inside us. We can always come back, from the gates of damnation to the paradise of pleasure.
Sadly, this is not just a choice. It’s needed for every man to fulfill this journey to be great in family, society and humanity.
We need more men who has battled themselves, lost, surrendered and survived, to be able to find peace in his heart and to bring the same to the outside.
